Posted by Astro2Kidz | Posted in | Posted on 9:25 AM
So as you all know a big part of our blog so far is da ladies. As two growing young men they are a big part of our lives so why not express our thoughts on em. And for the record these posts are not targeted at ALL or EVERY girl in the world, we're just speaking on past experiences.For today I have a special request from a dear friend. She's like a lil sister to me and it's hard to see her struggle in her relationships with dese dudes. I think her biggest down fall came when she experienced how it feels to fall in love with someone that falls out of love with you. The damage was done from there and now every boy in the future has to pay for it, because her trust is bad now. Don't get me wrong she has had some bad dirt done to her many a times, but she also isn't so innocent herself. For example she has a bad case opf playin the X game, and that is when you break up with your X and end up gettin into another relationship but you never really got over your X so you play with the devil and try to still talk and flirt with them up into the point you feel as if you are with them again but in reality it's nothing more than a game which in the end the player ends up losing. This not only hurts your new partner but it also hurts you the most because you lose the new thing you had that could've been something and you also realize that you have no chance at gettin your X back so now your stuck with nothing. And my lil sis had this problem bad she did it once to my homie in 8th grade (no name calling) and it also scarred her as a result i think. My sis' other big problem is clinginess (sorry bro I know u hate dat word). This again comes from trust because she thinks now that if she's not talking to or with her dude almost all the time that something is wrong and that he could be doing her wrong. I think she doesn't realize this issue as much because she probably is blind to the fact but me and alot of her friends see it and want her to notice it to so she can fix it. I believe if she works on her trust problem it will nip alot of her other issues in the bud because they usually start off from trust and veres off the path because of it. Once she has fixed these broken things and allows herself to love again with no limitations and fear, I believe the sky is the limit for her. She just has to find the right guy (and someone i approve of) and she will be just fine (like chris brown say).
Woooo, that was kinda tiring lol. Hopefully everyone can learn something from this other than my sis. Even though it was meant for her as they say you can always learn from others mistakes.
But that's all for today and expect a part4 soon, hopefully we can start talking bout the good in the ladies of today's world, but who knows (haha).
So until next time, be safe and prosperous and keep it fresh dog.
-CG
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