S of W.C. Part 3.1: Deception and Communication

Posted by Astro2Kidz | Posted in | Posted on 8:24 AM


Let me go ahead and say that we'll be doin two parts that make up part three. I think alotta people understood where we were coming from with parts 1 & 2. I just hope that some ladies actually see this and take it as something to help them avoid in their relationships or use it to help them build as women (socially). We aren't just women bashing or anything like that cause me and Cory both know we gotta become more mature and intelligent as men (Hopefully all the other guys know that too haha). Allow me to introduce Part 3.

Lately I've been talking to alotta homies about whats been up with them and their ladies. Deception and communication are two things that can not only scar a relationship but scar a friendship aswell. The best way to have a good relationship is to be real from the start. Prolly 90% of the problems that happen in relationships are something that could've never happened if you talked it out first. For example:

I already know I'm not the type of person to put my business in the streets but this is just very fitting to what I 'm saying. So last nite I'm chillin watchin Dexter's Lab and what not. Up jumps a call from a old EX.Girlfriend (She really doesn't even deserve that title). Of course my reaction was more like "What the heck?" rather then "How are you?". The conversation was real short though so nothing was really said. We always talk from time to time so it's not like we're strangers. It was all good until I talked with my homie Cory about all these things she said to him about me since I left (Atlanta). So of course I'm mad about the stuff cause its kinda like "Yo! if you felt like dat why didn't you tell me? The guy you talking about is not hard to reach". There where so many emotions of anger and frustration going through my head cause that was probabl y some of the last things I expected to hear from her. Then she hits me with a text the next morning tryin to see if I'm mad. I don't get mad about much but when a chick I (actually) cared about does something like that. It just really shows me that good women really are hard to find. It takes enough just for me to care about a girl but who can blame me when the end result turns out like this? Makes me think twice before I ever like a girl.....

So mainly I'm just saying that ladies should tell dudes exactly how they feel instead of wasting alot of time and never saying anything (same for dudes). I've heard many people tell me girls are decieving because they always change up when you least expect it (True). Now I've expirienced first hand....

Peace

-T.J.

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